Hallo zusammen und herzlich willkommen zum Format CHEEXY Chats in unserem CHEEX TALKS Podcast von unserer Sexual-Wellness Platform CHEEX. Wir sind Helen und Amenzee, wir lieben es, miteinander über diverse Themen rund um Se+ & Beziehungen zu quatschen und in unserer 11. Episode sind wir, wegen vielen Nachfragen aus der Community, auf deutsch zu hören und sprechen über ein Thema, was sehr viele Menschen beschäftigt - die Penisgröße.

Wir gehen der Frage auf den Grund, woher die gesellschaftlichen Erwartungen bezüglich der Penisgröße kommen. Wir sprechen offen darüber, ob die Größe wirklich so wichtig ist wie viele denken und wie man mit Unsicherheiten in Bezug auf den eigenen Körper umgehen kann. Dabei beleuchten wir sowohl psychologische als auch physische Aspekte der Penisgröße und geben Tipps, wie man zu mehr Selbstakzeptanz und einem gesunden Selbstbild finden kann. Gemeinsam räumen wir mit Mythen auf und sprechen darüber, was in Beziehungen wirklich zählt: Vertrauen, Kommunikation und gegenseitiger Respekt.

Als Hörer*in von CHEEXY Chats hast du jetzt die Möglichkeit, das CHEEX-Jahresabo 7 Tage lang kostenlos zu testen. Benutze einfach den Code 'cheexychats' beim Bezahlen über den Link: bit.ly/cheexychats

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Musik: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Schnitt & Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh

Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, we love chatting freely about diverse topics connected to Se+ & Relationships and in our 10th Episode we are talking about the Libido and the things that affect your Se+life!
In our 10th episode, which also marks the finale of the first season of CHEEXY Chats, we talk about all the factors that can influence your sex drive. We share some personal stories as always, give you a little overview on the scientific aspects of the libido & we’ll talk about hormones, stress, relationships and P+rn. We hope this last episode of the very first season of CHEEXY Chats is a worthy conclusion. We promise to be back soon with more stories, ideas, topics and maybe even some exciting changes!
Thank YOU, dear listeners, for your time and attention, we can’t wait to meet you again soon!
Join us on the ride and feel free to comment on Instagram, Spotify or via Mail, what your thoughts & experiences with your sexual fantasies are.
As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats

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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh

Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, we love chatting freely about diverse topics connected to Se+ & Relationships and in our 9th Episode we are talking about sexual fantasies and what they mean. This topic goes along with our current “vote for your porn campaign” where you can anonymously take a short survey and we will turn your deepest desires into a porn: https://cheex.typeform.com/voteforyourporn (*poll is open until 11.8 so vote now)!

In our episode we also chat about where fantasies come from, how they can be categorized, why it is important to destigmatize them and what fantasy trends exist and how they shift. We answer questions like are there problematic fantasies? Do I have to test out all my fantasies? How do I share my fantasies? Join us on the ride and feel free to comment on Instagram, Spotify or via Mail, what your thoughts & experiences with your sexual fantasies are.

As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats

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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh

Chapters:
Ca. 00:00:30 Intro
Ca. 00:04:30 What are Se+ual Fantasies: Definition and Overview
Ca. 00:09:00 Types of Se+ual Fantasies/ Common & Uncommon Fantasies
Ca. 00:18:00 Most Popular Fantasies according to P0rnHub
Ca. 00:30:00 Cultural and Societal Influences
Ca. 00:40:00 Psychology
Ca. 00:56:00 Outro

Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, we love to chat freely about diverse topics connected to Se+ & Relationships and in our 8th Episode we are talking about the Hook-Up-Culture and discuss what role it plays in finding our se+ual liberation.

We’re talking about different kinds of movements that fought for se+ual liberation over the last years, we sum up what the term “se+ual liberation” means to us and critically dive into the topic of Hook-Up-Culture and many of its aspects. Is it freeing? Does it stand in the way of love? What about consent? Bodycounts? Pressure? Does it support the Patriarchy? Does it lead to freedom? What other ways are there to become se+ual liberated? And does se+ual liberation necessarily mean to have a lot of se+ ? Join us on the ride and feel free to comment on Instagram, Spotify or via Mail, what your thoughts & experiences with Hook-Ups are!

As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats
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Chapters:
00:00 Intro
00:20 What is sexual liberation?
00:10 Sexual liberation & hook-ups
00:11:34 Is hook-up culture hindering love?
00:23:30 Personal anecdotes
00:51:10 Outro
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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh

CHEEXY Chats | Consent Is Mandatory

Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and in our 7th Episode we are talking about Consent.
Consent is mandatory and today we will tell you a little bit more about the whole topic, our own experiences with and without consent, why consent is s*xy and we’ll guide you through a few situations and show you what consent can look like. This Episode could be seen as the basis to all the other topics we’re talking about in our Podcast, because it is the ground we’re walking on as se+ual liberated, empowered and playful beings. We’d love to invite you to try it yourself, learn, practice and maybe even share some experiences with us on Instagram, Spotify or wherever you may find us. Now join the ride right into roleplay, personal stories and some realtalk about one of our favourite topics!

As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats

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Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh

Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and in our 6. Episode it is all about Oral!

As we focus on the topic of oral, we debunk some pretty wild myths, dive into the history of oral sex and talk about personal stories. This time, we asked the community via Instagram and you all sent us some exciting questions, we will answer. How did former US president Clinton affect the way we perceive oral today? When did oral appear for the first time?
How can Oral help strengthen a relationship, how do you spice up your oral pleasure and how do you get really good in bed – especially in oral?
If you are curious and want to know more about the whole topic, check out our 6th episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our growing little community!

As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats

Follow us on Instagram: @getcheex
Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut & Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh

Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and in our new Episode we talk about the straight gaze in the media and how it affects our everyday life. Also: HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE! You may have already heard of the male gaze and how it has been criticized over the last years, now we take it a step further and look at it from another perspective where we zoom into the queer and the straight ways of looking at life in movies, TV shows, ads, p0rn or Tumblr. How does the straight gaze affect marginalized groups in real life situations? Where does the whole “gaze”-topic come from? Why is the “gay best friend” trope in semi-woke films problematic and how do we start telling real stories of diverse people in different media forms?
If you are curious and want to know more about the whole topic, check out our 5th episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our growing little community!

As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats

Follow us on Instagram: @getcheex
Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh

Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and in our fourth Episode we are talking about all kinds of body hair!
Join us on a ride through the history of body hair, exploring studies, benefits, fun facts, and debunking some myths along the way. We share a little about our own relationship to our body hair and we’d love to inspire you to talk to your lovers and friends about the hairy business.
Is it really more hygienic to shave? What the hell is “manscaping”? How did the people in ancient Greece shave? And what is all this fuss about our body hair anyway?

If you are curious and want to know more about the whole topic, check out our 4th episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our growing little community!

As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats

Follow us on Instagram: @getcheex
Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh

Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX. We are Helen and Amenzee, chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and our third episode was taking place on the taz labs live stage.
We’re pleased to announce our very first guest of CHEEXY CHATS: Lina Bembe!
Lina Bembe is a P0rn-Performer, Director and Intimacy Coordinator. This Episode is all about Intimacy Coordination and Linas Work. Why is Intimacy Coordination necessary? What does it even mean? What’s the difference between Intimacy Coordinators on Movie Sets and on P0rn Sets and how does an Intimacy Coordinator make sure that everyone on Set is feeling safe?
If you are curious and want to know more about the whole topic, check out our 3rd episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our growing little community!

As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days. Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats

Follow us on Instagram: @getcheex
Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Vanessa Sonnenfroh

Hello everyone and welcome to the format CHEEXY Chats in our CHEEX TALKS podcast from our ethical pleasure platform CHEEX.
We are Helen and Amenzee chatting freely about diverse topics connected to S*x & Relationships and our second episode is all about the 0rgasm!
We chat about pleasure, masturbating, the 0rgasm-Gap, the relation between the patriarchy and the 0rgasms of vulva-owners and how to take up space and to take your time for your pleasure. We also broach topics like reconnecting with your body after abusive experiences, the different ways of performing pressure around the whole topic of 0rgasms for various types of genders and how wonderful 0rgasms are but how they are not always necessary for having a good time.

What do waterslides and s*xt0ys have in common? How do we loosen up the 3-Acts-Movie-like scripts of our s*xlifes and transform performance into shared experiences? How do we chill out a bit when it comes to 0rgasms and see them less as a task and more as a fun part of an experience?
Check out our 2nd Episode of CHEEXY Chats and become a part of our little community!

As a listener of CHEEXY Chats, you now have the opportunity to try out the CHEEX annual subscription for free for 7 days.
Simply use the code 'cheexychats' at checkout via the link: bit.ly/cheexychats

Follow us on Instagram: @getcheex
Music: Eva-Lotte Andereya
Cut&Mix: Moritz Bailly